Categories
Education news fashion Parenting Readers The world

Challenges dealing with teenagers..watch this.

Categories
Parenting Readers The world

The best way parents relate with teenagers

Sometimes teenagers tend to be a bit stubborn. If you have been having problem to relate with your teens, then you are not alone. Many parents are struggling to raise the young boys and girls. The video below will give you some hints.

Ciscas: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLKY05imSaS2PqHBlZ8FsefLc1DJ1nkgnv

Categories
Education news In Africa kenya News Parenting Readers

Why parents should mind some of their behaviours when with children.

Many times we tend to ignore the presence of children when we are discussing our parents-related issues. In the modern community, parents talk some sensitive issues and they assume that children are understanding nothing or they are not interested.

As much as we are eager to teach our children morals and values, they also learn a lot from what they see us parents doing. Children learn much through observation and parents should mind their behaviour when addressing to some issues especially if the children are with them. Let’s look at this scenario:

John was driving home accompanied by his 4year old child. While he was driving, his boy was playing a game using his phone. There was high traffic and everyone was struggling to get home before dark. As every market has a mad man, some drivers find it difficult to practise patience, so one driver drove past John using the wrong side of the road. He almost hit John’s car as he squeezed his car to find way out. When John so that, he shouted in anger, ” Stupid you mad man!” At all this time, his boy was busy playing with his father’s phone. After driving for a half an hour, another driver pulled out of the traffic trying to overlap. John was busy setting his radio and so he did not notice it. It wasn’t long before he was interrupted by his boy. ” Dad Dad! Look at that stupid mad man what he is doing over there.!” John was surprised not to say a word. He had not realized that he had become a perfect teacher to his boy until he heard it. He wondered what to tell the boy now that those were the same words he had used previously. He pretended to be busy but the son made sure that the father got the message. After realizing that the boy could not stop insisting, he said, “Leave him alone. Just continue with your game.” John continued with his journey but disturbed. He had realized that was not the best parent to emulate. He had Learnt his lesson and he decided to make a change in his character for the sake of his son.

a) If it were you what would you have done?
b) What type of character is your child getting from you?

So next time you act abnormally, take precaution. Your child may make the best duplicate out of you. Parents let’s try to be role models to our children. This will make it easier for us to guide their behaviour.

Categories
Education news

Should kenyan students seat for their national exams this year? |ciscasquapro

It has been a push and pull game whether candidates students will do their end of the year final exams.It’s now almost two months since the schools were closed indefinitely.It is still not clear whether they will be safe from the pandemic if they resume classes. The discussion is still going on whether to open the schools or not.also see

Let’s hear your opinion on this. What do you think is the right thing to do? Kindly leave your comment below.read more

happy ethnic woman sitting at table with laptop

more on education

Categories
Education news

Why children are not safe from covid 19.

Are our children safe from corona virus..

It is sad that children have been left to go on with their daily activities. They are relating and playing as if covid 19 is a fiction. Schools were closed to keep children safe but it is like this is not working.

When parents go for job, these children are left all alone and they are free to meet with their friends without minding the impact of the pandemic. Most of them are seen not bothering to take the precautions needed. They never use masks nor keep social distance.

My question is…are these children safe? Is keeping them out of school protecting them from being victims?

Categories
Education news

Should kenyan students seat for their national exams this year?|Education |ciscasquapro

It has been a push and pull game whether candidates students will do their end of the year final exams.It’s now almost two months since the schools were closed indefinitely.It is still not clear whether they will be safe from the pandemic if they resume classes. The discussion is still going on whether to open the schools or not.also see

Let’s hear your opinion on this. What do you think is the right thing to do? Kindly leave your comment below.read more

happy ethnic woman sitting at table with laptop

more on education

Categories
Business news Education news In Africa kenya News Parenting Readers

5 reasons why parent cannot stay with their children|ciscasquapro

It has been a long time since schools were indefinitely closed due to Covid 19.
It was a surprise to many as this caught them unaware. How they had to swallow the bitter pill as there was no other option to save the children from the pandemic.
Since then, it has not been easy to stay with children for such a long time bearing in mind that some live in high populated areas.Some of the parents have said it openly why it has been hard to stay with their children for such a long time and it is their prayer this will come to an end soon.

This are some of the reasons they gave:
Children cannot learn by themselves without the help of the teacher. They don’t take parents seriously when they give the assignments . Some of the parents are not aware on what is taught in school. Others know little about the syllabus.

Controlling children has not been easy, This is because they are staying in small rooms and keeping children congested in a room for a whole day is not easy to them.They better go outside where they would have a wider space for their activities.

Some parents are still going to their working places, hence children are left unattended. They(the children)may take advantage of this and engage themselves with immoral behaviours which parent could not advocate for if they were around.

Some children are still too young to understand why they are being told that it is not right to play with their peers.Keeping them in the house all day is not that simple.

Then there are the teenagers who most of the time they feel they are always right. This brings conflict between them and the parents.Sometimes they take advantage of the absence of the parent to do immoral things which could land them in danger.The parents have to deep more in their pockets for the unexpected budget.

It is a prayer to every parent that things will be back to normal soonest.

Feel free to add other reasons as you comment.also see

Categories
Uncategorized

Valentine’s day and teenagers.

I don’t know whether it’s right to write about valentine’s day after it has already happened. But this was provoked by a series of questions that followed the day from some of pre-teens and teenagers all on valentine’s day.

On that day, I was too busy to remember that it was really Valentine. I woke up as usual, got dressed up without being keen on what was meant for the day.

I had to meet some pre teens and teens for certain duties. When I arrived, I was shocked with their brilliant ideas.

There were red flowers all over! Beautiful art on paints and pencils all symbolising the valentine’s day. The unexpected welcome of ululations left me amazed.It was fantastic!

Were these teens really knew what they were doing? Was this the way to celebrate the day?……….A lot of questions crisscrossed my mind ….If the world was full of such love….we would never imagine of leaving!

I had an assignment to do. What were they thinking when they were doing all these? I jogged their mind with a few questions:

What is it all about this valentine’s day?… Why did you need to do all this?…Why red flowers?…. And the answers were amazing! This one from a ten year old girl surprised me……..didn’t your husband give you a red rose?……it was still early in the morning….am still thinking whether I gave the right answer.